You will prepare and submit a term paper on Becoming influencial. Your paper should be a minimum of 750 words in length. Honesty is a great virtue of a nurse and honest communication is essential for a nurse. I try to be honest without hurting other people’s feelings because I am afraid if I am honest, then I will really hurt someone and then they won’t like me. However, if I am going to be an RN, then I need to learn how take things personally. “I should pay attention to how I speak and how I act when I speak. Nonverbal signs & signals say more about us than words. I should make sure my words are reflected in my body language.”(Sullivan & Decker, 2005) I need to focus on the problem, not the person. (Sullivan, 2005) I have to remember that my honesty is not personal, it’s business. I should strive to improve my communication Skills (Sullivan, 2005)
As a nurse, every night, I will assess / review what I have said to my peers and colleagues and note if I was honest or not. I will also ask my friends/ colleges from time to time how they view my honesty. I will start doing this now and will continue it in my nursing career.
One more important virtue which I think is mandatory is Professional Positive Attitude. A positive attitude is everything. It is specially required for nursing and health care related jobs. Positive attitude “is a state of mind at which impossible is nothing. Our mind releases abundance of energy and strength in our body to achieve anything that we desire.” (careercurry.com, 2007) Positive attitude increases the level of productivity for nurses and it will increase the chance of health for their patients by inspiration and positive energy. “Conveying a positive & energetic attitude sends the message of being “doer” and someone to be sought out for involvement in important issues. Being optimistic promote a can do attitude that suggests power & instills confidence in others.”(Sullivan & Decker, 2005)
I feel that when I am upset, then I have a hard time keeping a positive attitude. When taking care of patients a nurse needs to keep a positive attitude because patients can sense when you’re upset. Thus, I will need to have some forms of exercise (such as jazzercise) which will enable me to have full control over my emotions. I will also need to see things from different perspectives so I am not easily angered. I will attend jazzercise sessions and every week I will evaluate/check what have I learned from such session and try to practice it to my day to day living. In September I joined jazzercise and have found that it decreases my stress, lower my blood pressure, and I have a more positive attitude now that I have been making myself do this every week. Now that I have started this I would like to continue this for the rest of my life.
Becoming bold and/or daring also is also recommended for nurses. “Boldness is an opposite of being shy. A bold person may be willing to risk shame or rejection in social situations, and willing to bend rules of etiquette or politeness. An excessively bold person could aggressively ask for money, or persistently push a person to fulfill some request, and so on. Excessive boldness may thus be regarded as impertinence or arrogance. Outside a social context, “boldness” can also refer to a willingness to get things done, even despite risks, and is therefore broadly synonymous with bravery.”(Wiki Encyclopedia, 2007) Boldness is being daring and essential for nurses. It is like the courage of taking risk in every circumstance that might not lead to a good result but still would want to pursue it.